What is friendship?
Is it all about a simple sentence that “a friend in need is
a friend indeed”
Or may be limited to many such one liners or poetries by
different professional authors.
Well today I don’t know y but I seriously found a need to
define it in my own words, not to show the world its correct definition but to
clear myself that do I really know what friendship is all about?
I have some friends, actually many but one thing that I am
sure about everyone is that each one of them will be having their own
convenience related to this simple word, yes convenience, because even
friendship is nurtured with convenience these days, for instance… “you did’t
attended my birthday prty, you are not my true friend”, such people never
bother to know the reasons behind their not being together.
For some friendship means being available for them 24*7,
they even get hurt if a friend was not able to attend them due to some obvious
reasons…afterall its their so called
friendship convenience.
For some friendship means being connected all day and night
long through messages and phone calls and facebook and what not? God save their
eyes, ears and fingers…lol (special
thanks to free messaging applications)
Next convenience category includes people who judge their
friends on the basis of their social and financial status (yes there are actually many but well its their mindset so no hates for
them)
For some friendship means sharing every minutest details
with them, the next secnd anything such happens, trust me I don’t knw about
guys but girls don’t mind because some of us actually share the colour of their
daily nail paints to what they cooked or shopped every second with their so
called BFFs( best friends forever) and if any one forgets to mention something
then they are back butchers and no more trustworthy. God save them!!
For some friendship means liking their photograph on
facebook(don’t laugh bt some people actually fight over this issue(it is also common
in teenage relationships{some adults even do that}) eee…..!!! No Comments
For some friendship means wishing good morning and good
night regularly. Personally it’s the most boring and very boring task for me.
No complaints to those who do that. “Personal
choices” I will repeat.
I am sure that there
might be a lot of friendship conveniences for others as well But at present no
such “for some” points are crossing my mind, so may be a “friendship conveniences
PART2#” will be posted on this blog soon….lol
See I am not saying that all those who thinks this way are
wrong, afterall “ye unka dimag jo jee chahe soche” Mujhe kya. But I think I will
never judge a person’s friendship by such criterias
Because in friendship it should not matter how long we stay
connected in a day , or how many times we have called each other.
It neither means that we should meet regularly and say I miss
you friend a hundred times a week.
Nor one can score friendship by weather a they are available
to you at 3 in the morning to listen to you.
Many says relatives and relations are what we have from
birth but thank god we can choose our friends!!
But whats the use of having such friends who never
understands you, Never bother to know how you feel, y u were not able to talk
to them at 3 in the morning and listen to their whatever stories. Spent most of
the time fighting when you meet after a long time in you are very busy these
days and ol.
BULL SHIT it is( personal thoughts I will repeat again)
No sory and no thank you in friendship( I believe that these
2 words actually strengthen any relation, but rest is what other minds believe.
My simple belief of friendship says that true friends
understands each other, sometimes complaints but ultimately be with each other,
try to feel their circumstances like them only, wherever their friend is they
always pray their well being rather than complaining every minute that you are
busy.
This is true friendship according to me or you can call it my
CONVENIENCE…J
LOL
Keep smiling keep shining
Finally I have got something after a long time to post..:)
See you all soon again..:)
