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Life behind living, going to school, college or on your job has some hidden meanings in itself, but over the years, we forgot in seeking those meanings and keep creating unwanted web of responsibilities, relationships and desires around ourselves. In a journey to find our objective of life and to seek some important answers, this blog has been started. Please follow and join this journey even if you don’t want to follow him, you can at least pay a visit.


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FRIENDSHIP CONVENIENCES

What is friendship?

Is it all about a simple sentence that “a friend in need is a friend indeed”

Or may be limited to many such one liners or poetries by different professional authors.

Well today I don’t know y but I seriously found a need to define it in my own words, not to show the world its correct definition but to clear myself that do I really know what friendship is all about?

I have some friends, actually many but one thing that I am sure about everyone is that each one of them will be having their own convenience related to this simple word, yes convenience, because even friendship is nurtured with convenience these days, for instance… “you did’t attended my birthday prty, you are not my true friend”, such people never bother to know the reasons behind their not being together.

For some friendship means being available for them 24*7, they even get hurt if a friend was not able to attend them due to some obvious reasons…afterall its their so called friendship convenience.

For some friendship means being connected all day and night long through messages and phone calls and facebook and what not? God save their eyes, ears and fingers…lol (special thanks to free messaging applications)

Next convenience category includes people who judge their friends on the basis of their social and financial status (yes there are actually many but well its their mindset so no hates for them)

For some friendship means sharing every minutest details with them, the next secnd anything such happens, trust me I don’t knw about guys but girls don’t mind because some of us actually share the colour of their daily nail paints to what they cooked or shopped every second with their so called BFFs( best friends forever) and if any one forgets to mention something then they are back butchers and no more trustworthy. God save them!!

For some friendship means liking their photograph on facebook(don’t laugh bt some people actually fight over this issue(it is also common in teenage relationships{some adults even do that}) eee…..!!! No Comments

For some friendship means wishing good morning and good night regularly. Personally it’s the most boring and very boring task for me. No complaints to those who do that. “Personal choices” I will repeat.

I am sure that there might be a lot of friendship conveniences for others as well But at present no such “for some” points are crossing my mind, so may be a “friendship conveniences PART2#” will be posted on this blog soon….lol

See I am not saying that all those who thinks this way are wrong, afterall “ye unka dimag jo jee chahe soche” Mujhe kya. But I think I will never judge a person’s friendship by such criterias

Because in friendship it should not matter how long we stay connected in a day , or how many times we have called each other.

It neither means that we should meet regularly and say I miss you friend a hundred times a week.

Nor one can score friendship by weather a they are available to you at 3 in the morning to listen to you.

Many says relatives and relations are what we have from birth but thank god we can choose our friends!!

But whats the use of having such friends who never understands you, Never bother to know how you feel, y u were not able to talk to them at 3 in the morning and listen to their whatever stories. Spent most of the time fighting when you meet after a long time in you are very busy these days and ol.

BULL SHIT it is( personal thoughts I will repeat again)

No sory and no thank you in friendship( I believe that these 2 words actually strengthen any relation, but rest is what other minds believe.

My simple belief of friendship says that true friends understands each other, sometimes complaints but ultimately be with each other, try to feel their circumstances like them only, wherever their friend is they always pray their well being rather than complaining every minute that you are busy.

This is true friendship according to me or you can call it my CONVENIENCE…J LOL

Keep smiling keep shining

Finally I have got something after a long time to post..:)

See you all soon again..:)

Bachpan Ka Zamana..:)

Chaar log dekhege to kyaa kahege???

The cloudy canvas

Floating above us

Wandering up in the sky

The cloudy canvas

P.S: My first hiaku experiment...i hope this isn't wrong or anthing wierd...!!

please post suggestions!!!

Surrounded with problems..

From a long time it seems that problems are making fun of me by coming in my way once i get out of one another arrives that too without invitation...:(
**** PROBLEM PROBLEM PROBLEM****
i wish sometimes that i had a magic wand.

P.S: not a big problem, but it seems huge in front of me[ A laptop failure...:'(  ]
       For others it not might be that big but for a laptop addict like me, it is...It ACTUALLY IS.
       GET WELL SOON LAPPY...:(

TOO MANY QUESTIONS!!!!

umm i'll do this and they will b hurt!!
ohks if i do this , she will be unhappy..!!!
ahaann , this shud b done bttt wat about him???? he must not feel gud about it..
that cant b done, because if i do this what others will think of me???
no no no, thats impossible, what about the reputation of my family??
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have u ever been through this..????
if yes then u can help me here..???
please tell me when i am going to live for  myself??
i know living for others and taking care of others is good but sometimes i feel that a part of me is lost when ever one of these questions arise in the depth of my mind..because either i give more importance to others or i am afraid of the losing them rather than losing myself??
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a tough question for me....<surrounded with silence>
i dream of people who will understand me one day, the day when i'll stop hiding my emotions..
i sometimes wonder weather forgiving forgetting and moving on is my weakness or a strength..
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P.S. : too many questions and no answers..must answer if u can..:/

JUST ordinary..:)

a day with my sibling

time runs so fast when u are enjoying it..i dont know when yesterday's evening turned to todays ..:)
it seems as if he has cum just before minutes and now he's gone for don't know how long...we have met after 2 years and things were as they were before.. the only difference we found out in each other was that both of us grew 2 years older...dats the negative point of having a cousin(that too your favourite one ) living kilometers away..
thought technology have connected us but still meeting and talking non stop without being lack of topics has its own fun..:)

miss u bhaiiizz..;)
come again soon...:) 

dont miss L.I.F.E

 A journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step. Take off all your envies, jealousies, unforgiveness, selfishness, and fears. And you will find things are actually not as difficult as you think.. Sometimes we spend time in asking who is responsible or whom to blame, whether in a relationship, in a job or with the people we know. By this way we miss out something called L.I.F.E.......

small things

sometimes small small things in life gives u big big happiness..
its how u take things..:)
i live this way...:)